Not really sure how you can "qualify" an experience... (especially a 1st-hand one)

Clearly there is a difference in how you (ab)use your truck if it's not in how you are setting your bearings up (for one thing I've never once gotten my brakes so hot to cook the grease in the bearings

Maybe that's your problem).
I had Goodyear MT/R-Ks on my truck for the last 2½ years, which are very well on the heavy side for 35" tires (dunno what difference bias vs radial makes... most are same or lighter than the MT/R-K), and that's after another 6 years of BFG MTs in the same size (forget about the 25K miles on 33s the axle had before it went under my BII).
With so many people around that don't have issues with it (including a guy used to be on here I think his nic was Warrlord ran 38" bias swampers on his big Supercab for a few years,
also didn't have problems with the bearings)... I cannot agree that the axle's design is solely the reason for those who
are having problems with it.
If swapping to D44 knuckles fixes the issue for you, then great! No argument the D44 design is more robust. But for those of us that
don't have issues with the D35's setup, D44 knuckles would not do a thing for us. This is why we attempt to weed out whatever the causes the OP might have with his setup (use of cheap bearings, mixing races, overtightening, etc.) before recommending something more extreme like the D44 knuckles, which would require the OP make modifications to his rear axle also, and then get new wheels and have to switch his tires over to them.
I don't know how many miles you drive a year Bobby (you did not say), however I
can tell you that I have driven more than plenty enough miles to wear out 3 sets of bias Super Swampers all on the same bearings.
I've never once made a secret of it... (why should I??) I pack the bearings about every 4 years (or about 20K miles, which I'm actually overdue on now) with Castrol wheel bearing grease (nothing special about the grease, just plain disc brake lithium grease, have used Sta-Lube grease a couple times too), tighten the bearings to 35 ft-lbs while spinning the rotor a number of times back & forth, loosen the nut & retighten to 15 inch-lbs (just barely snug by hand, really), then put the lock ring on and tighten the outer locknut to 250ft-lbs. Been doing it this way since the truck (axle) was new. I dunno what else to tell you.

You admit to running it over weight so maybe you think that might have something to do with it??