Well it's pissing rain sideways out there, so I'll wait till it stops, lol, my manual says your looking for a grey w/red stripe (GY/R) and a light blue w/ yellow stripe (LB/Y) for manual and auto 4.0L BII/Ranger. There was 4 wires in that plug right? The other 2 should be either reverse light or OD light, that pink w/blue your talking about might be the OD or reverse light?
Mine is a 91 Explorer 4.0L, engine harness and dash so not sure if the colors are the same or not, the manual says red w/light blue and pink for both auto and manual Explorers for the clutch triple function switch and park/neutral switch.
Once it stops raining I'll get out there and confirm my wire colors anyways.