Jumping to ether/starting fluid is a 50/50 shot at starting usually - telling you if it is fuel or spark (air works 99.9% of the time, and engines only need three things: fuel/air/fire).
If you get nothing out of the fuel line before the filter, either A) you are out of gas B) the pump is dead C) wiring issue (bad ground).... assuming a 2005 is plumbed up like the older ones I know more about. Is there anything else between the pump and where you disconnected it?
Edit: I didn't catch we are talking a revive of a thread by someone completely unrelated... Someone more familiar with the newer than me needs to verify, when the relay is closed it is supplying ground to the pump (pump always has power with key on) in the old ones like my 2nd gen - Did Ford continue that in this generation? so you probably have a bad ground (I assume you were testing for power without using the ground pin, but instead just a convenient spot on the frame...)