I've offered several compromises. The last was that the Ranger is in the garage for a few days when bylaw comes to inspect the completed yard so I can keep it here. Initially she agreed but after a bit decided she wants her car in the garage in case of vandals or thieves. Which is a bs excuse.
I'm running out of options and told her so.
Ultimately she wants everything her way and I'm sick of having to throw away my hard work and money to appease her. If I choose to appease her again I pretty much have to start over from scratch. This would be the 3rd time for me.
She can't afford the mortgage without my help so she could stand to be more reasonable. She wants me to stay, of course.
Truth is, I don't think bylaw will ever go away though. The harassment won't stop until one or both of us leave here. If I stay I need to lawyer up and threaten legal action to end the harassment which hardly seems worthwhile.
Going is the path of least resistance.