"top center" has no meaning since a starter relay can be mounted in several orientations and there are different styles, 3 and 4 post
All Starter relays will have 2 larger posts and 1 or 2 smaller posts, smaller post are labelled "S" and if 2 "I"
One of the larger posts is the 12volt power distribution for the whole vehicle, has battery positive and several other wires on it
2nd larger post will just have one wire, to starter motor, it will be a larger cable if its the older system, same size as battery cable
The smaller "S" post is what activate the relay, red/blue wire from ignition switch
When activated the two larger posts are connected together inside the relay and so battery positive cable is connected to starter motor cable, which powers up the starter motor
And thats how it worked for 50 years or so
In the late 1980's early 1990's Ford started changing to starter motors that had built-in relays, smaller cylinder on top of the starter motor, that has its own "S" post, and it DOES have the "S" next to it, lol
These starter motors connected directly to battery positive and had the red/blue wire from ignition switch on the starter motors "S" post
red/blue wire actives the built-in relay and starter motor activates
This change was done to get a more reliable starter gear engagement
That smaller cylinder on top of starter motor is also a Solenoid so its a combo solenoid/relay
Whats in a name
A relay makes an electrical connection
A solenoid causes movement
The solenoid, when activated, pushes the starter gear out to engage the ring gear to turn the engine
It moves the gear out and back in, that was done before by a Bendix drive
The relay in it is what activates the solenoid milliseconds before starter motor gets it 12volts to activate
Its a more reliable system overall that earlier system
So look at your new starter motor, does it have an "S" post?