I got my boxes in mail today with no u bolts or shackles
like I read the install paper and said came with shackles and well idk
The 2/3 kit comes with shackles, but it's to lift the back end a little after the axle flip. I wander if maybe they use the same instruction sheet for both.
The 4/5 kit doesn't come with or need shackles. Once you flip the axle you'll have your 5" drop, the shackle in the 2/3 kit is to lift the back end back up to give 3" drop. With your Explorer axle you won't even need the flip brackets included either the 4/5 kit, that axle comes setup that way from the factory.
im looking to get bed bolts from ford what else do I need?
like the clips for bed bolts?
The only reason you would need any of those is if you plan to remove the bed. Are you planning to remove the bed? If you have access to a lift there's really no need to remove it. Even without access to a lift I wouldn't remove it for an axle flip.
This is my general peocedure for working on ground, modify as necessary for lift use. Put it on stands, leave the wheels/tires on. Disconnect everything from the axle except the u-bolts, leave the wheels/tires on. Support axle with floor jack, just under pumplin with weight of axle only on jack. Remove the rear spring to shackle bolt on both sides, and let jack down slowly, axle should drop to floor with jack. If it doesn't spring bushings might need a little careful (very careful with axle partially supported) coaxing with pry bar to come out of shackle. Once on floor remove U-bolts and axle should roll right out from under the truck. Reverse for installation.
ubolts?
shackle bolts?
control arm bolts?
I've never seen a lowering kit for a Ranger come with new U-bolts, but they may recommend that you use new ones. Can't give you a size on the U-bolts. If it were me I'd get the u-bolts with the Explorer axle, if nothing else you can use them to get new bolts in the correct size. I've never replaced them myself. Yes I've heard the stories, but people have been reusing them for a lot longer than those stories have been around. Aside from the NET the only time I've heard of u-bolts being replaced is changing to axle with different diameter tubes (like you're doing) or a damaged bolt.
Shackle and control arm bolts, reuse the ones you have. I recommend spraying them and all other bolts with a good penetrant at least daily starting a week before you plan to do the work. Use something like PB Blaster, WD-40 is a lube not a penetrant regardless of what the can may say.