I see what the other guys are saying now, I thought you had the common Ford starter relay on the fender, but you don't. You just have a Bosch type relay in the fuse box sending a signal to the starter.
Like they said, if this starter relay clicks when you spring the key to start, that means the relay is getting a signal to pass power to the starter.
If you can unplug the relay and jump the contacts and make the starter work, then you do have power at the relay.
So it should start, everything is there. I have a feeling you are going to have to get someone with a little more experience to look at it. In the meantime it won't hurt anything to jump the relay socket to start it. Just be careful and make sure it's in park and make sure the key is in run so it will start. You re jumping the starter out, so it will crank the engine no matter what.