LOL, Sorry I haven't been on and updated, It turns out both shops lied to me. I called the tricity ford and asked them today about my truck, I've had it back about 3 weeks trying to figure out where to send it, to see if those other shops were telling me the truth about the 2 month wait, well the first shop said 4 and the second said 2, nevertheless, I called tricity ford the dealership they told me about the delay. and it turns out that they don't work or even diagnose anything older than 2000 models,and that they had no one on there staff to work on 90's model or older fords, I wish there was some way I could contact the better business bureau on the first two shops.
I also, called the ford dealer in Virginia and I told them everything and they sat up appointment for 9 am next Thursday. And then they told me if it take longer than 5 business days to find out the problem they would give me a car to dive in the mean time.
cross your fingers and hope they find the problem.