I got the starter off and i seen 6 bolt spots. But top 2 bolts were missing. I read that only 4th is like that but also i have a pdf file of the transmission showing a conplete breakdown of it and it states that all gears use synchhronizers. Im not home at the moment and wont be for a few days but when i get there ill give it a good lookover and ill update on everything.
Yes, 4th gear has a synchronizer, it has to or you wouldn't be able to shift into it when in motion. The syncro for 4th gear is shared with 3rd. HOWEVER, 4th 'gear' is not a gear at all. When the 3/4 syncro for 4th speed is engaged, the input shaft is locked to the output shaft and the gear ratio is 1:1.
It is common on these transmissions for the oil to leak out of the top of the transmission at the three shifter rails. There are 3 rubber plugs at the back of the shifter assembly, and when they dry out and harden the oil starts to leak. If the transmission ran dry, all kinds of bad things happen. It's possible the ball bearings for the counter shaft are gone and the counter shaft fell away from the main shaft which would cause you to lose 1,2,3,5 and R.
Pull the trans top cover after you get it out, but if you see that kind of carnage, I would suggest getting a junkyard trans and freshening it up. Remember these transmissions use 5.6 PINTS of Automatic Transmission Fluid, NOT gear oil.
One other thing that might be holding you up, did you pull the shift lever and remove the plate that is bolted to the floor board (under the carpet) that the shifter goes through. Some might say removing that plate isn't necessary, but pulling it out made removing and installing the transmission much easier for me.