Oil pressure is the oil the engine can not use, it is the back pressure in main oil passage going out from oil filter to bearings and valve train.
So thats where you need to tap into the pressure, the main passage between oil filter and bearings, this will give a true pressure, i.e. if pump or filter clogs up you would see it here first
It is just a pressure reading so you can "T" off existing Sender/switch location, doesn't hurt anything or reduce pressure reading for either.
Oil pump pumps more oil than system can use, by design, so when passages are flowing as much oil as possible then the oil backs up and oil pressure goes up.
Higher RPMs don't make bearings or valve train openings any bigger, but oil pump does pump more oil since it is RPM based, so back pressure goes up with RPMs.
Back pressure above 6psi keeps valve train well oiled, high spot of engine, around 4psi is when you would hear ticking begin to start.
Over 60psi back pressure can cause "washing" at the bearings, actually "dries" them out causing early failure
General rule of thumb for oil pressure is 1psi per 100rpm, up to about 40psi, 4,000rpm
All oil pumps do have a high pressure ball and spring, spring pressure can be adjusted on some, if back pressure exceeds, say 60psi at the pump, ball would be pushed open against spring pressure allowing pump to bleed off excess back pressure to the oil pan